We all have a certain personality type that we can identify with.
Not mutually exclusive, of course, it defines how we think, feel, and act.
Each of us, based on this and what we learned as we matured, gravitate toward various values.
We organize things in unique ways based on our worldviews, and we’re limited in a distinct manner based on our motivations, desires, and how we see our role in the world.
Our type gives us strengths, but it also sets up barriers for actualizing our potential.
Rather than viewing your type as limiting and cumbersome, think of it as a fantastic way of getting to know yourself better and a fun method of developing self-awareness. The process of self-discovery can be enlightening and entertaining. This could be a good lesson in learning to laugh at yourself, become vulnerable, and seek to forgive yourself for the foibles you make on a daily basis. I kinda love being human, despite how difficult it can feel at times. When we can march to the beat of our own drum, and choreograph this march with a willingness to seek the best in ourselves and strive to discover what makes us tick, we become whole!
I want my life to be a toe-tapping, crazy carnival ride of a good time! I want to learn something new about myself every day. I want to have a revelation. I don’t want to be looking too far behind, way too far ahead, or miss what’s right in front of me. I don’t want to miss the beauty that’s emerging from YOUR type either!
So I’ll share what I’ve recognized of late…
My latest revelation: I acquired as I grew up the belief that we are accepted based on what we accomplish and that we are rewarded for what we do rather than for who we are.
My behavior and mode of operation as a result of this: Achieve! Work my hardest to be the best at what I set out to accomplish! Be driven, unencumbered by others, and forge ahead with the energy of 10 people!
My attention is focused on: How to be the best.
What I forget to pay attention to with this modus operandi: My feelings, fatigue, and my personal value outside of my achievements
What sets me back: impatience
Oh gosh, there’s more…so much more. This is just the tip of the tap!
This week I’m committing to tapping into me and I’ll be sharing a new revelation every time one pops up.
I want to know what you recognize too!
A good place to start would be in asking yourself 1). What are my values? (What is important to you? What do your behaviors indicate to you?)
Need a place to start?
Read through the following list of personal values and rate each value by its degree of importance to you. Use the following number scale:
1 = very important
2 = somewhat important
3 = not very important
4 = not important at all
___Family relationships ___ Being available to my children
___ Family time ___ Being available to my parents or relatives
___ Romantic relationships ___ Being available to others
___ Friendships ___ Companionship
___ Helping others ___ Honesty
___ Loyalty ___ Financial comfort
___ Self-improvement ___ Personal appearance
___ Respect ___ Education and knowledge
___ Recognition ___ Security
___ Sense of control ___ Accomplishment
___ Achievement ___ Adventure
___ Justice ___ Mental stimulation and challenge
___ Time alone ___ Religion; spiritual growth
___ Creativity ___ Tolerant attitudes
___ Fame ___ Neatness; orderliness
___ Physical challenge ___ Material possessions
___ Competitiveness ___ Hobbies
___ Leisure time ___ Exercise
___ Peace of mind ___ Health
___ Independence ___ Ability to influence
___ Power ___ Flexibility
___ Self-esteem ___ Happiness
___ Ethics ___ Group or team affiliation
___ Generosity ___ Community involvement
___ Sports ___ Aesthetics (beauty)
___ Music ___ Travel
___ Social status ___ Financial status
___ Reputation ___ Patriotism for the country
___ Wealth ___ Truth
___ Pets ___ Volunteering
___ Peace ___ Environmental protection
___ Fairness ___ Sense of belonging
___ Excitement ___ Nature
___ Cooperation ___ Wildlife
___ Consideration of others ___ Music
___ Entertainment ___ Art
___ Integrity ___ Humility
___ Originality ___ Innovation
___ Humor ___ Personal expression
___ Comfortable surroundings ___ Neighbors and neighborhood
My Personal Values
Now, list the personal values you rated a number one (#1). Prioritize them if you can!
My most important personal values are:
1. ___________________________________
2. ___________________________________
3. ___________________________________
4. ___________________________________
5. ___________________________________
6. ___________________________________
7. ___________________________________
8. ___________________________________
9. ___________________________________
10. ___________________________________
Post up. I want to hear what you tapped into! I say we go to Mamby Pamby land and use this to develop some self confidence!
Wait! Revelation #2! I’m a jackwagon! ;-P
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